And I just want to let all you ace cuties out there know that:
- Your sexuality is valid
- Your sexuality is normal
- You are not broken
- You are amazing
- I love you
-you love in a way that is beautiful and unique; you have self-love and devotion to the world, passions, and often see the true character of other people
-your interests and drive in life are different from the collective but extremely admirable. You may feel like you don’t belong. That is because you shine, you are extraordinary.
-it’s okay to not feel sexual attraction, or not want romance. Many asexuals I have met (including myself haha) are deeply sensitive to emotions and the world around them, and don’t need an intimate partner to be happy and comfortable and build amazing lives.
-despite how sex-driven society is, sex is NOT needed in order to have fulfillment, validation, and success in life.
-your life does not need to match that of other people. Strive to be the original, creative, special individual that you are. Be one of a kind.
-You are unique, you are a masterpiece. Don’t let anyone try to make you feel unimportant, invisible, or unequal because of an aspect of your identity. Even if you or other people find asexuality to be a negative thing, it doesn’t dominate your entire identity.
-asexuals often have such amazing minds you have no idea. Think about it, how deep on the cognitive spectrum you have to be in order to have disinterest in physicality. Your mind encompasses an emotion or feeling over so many times that it’s satisfying enough for it. It’s awesome. There’s an intense brilliance and inclination towards passion for asexuals due to this.
-you also need to understand, friendship is amazing. It’s spontaneous and doesn’t require responsibility and is unpredictable and fun