The Escapist

thatkindoffangirl:

“You want to talk about kink at work and not get fired” no I want to be able to talk about my kinks outside of work in appropriate settings without giving people a weapon to get me fired from work if they are pissed at me

“You want to talk about kink at work and not get fired” no I want to be able to go to a policeman and tell them I’ve been raped without having them tell me that since I’m into bdsm I can’t be raped because I probably enjoyed it

“You want to talk about kink at work and not get fired” no I want to be able to go to a therapist to talk about my sexuality without having them refusing me service or trying to convert me to “normal” sex or claiming that all my problems are due to my sexuality

“You want to talk about kink at work and not get fired” no I want to be able to go to a doctor while having bruises from bdsm play and feel safe telling them what those bruises are caused by without risking them flipping out at me, refusing to cure me or denouncing my partner for abuse

These are all things that happened and keep happening. But, sure, let’s frame it as “you want to talk about kink at work and not get fired” so we can keep claiming there is not a problem.