so my mom says she is ok with the fact that I'm ace but whenever I talk about it, crack jokes, or mention anything to do with pride she gets all weird and tells me to stop. and when I asked her what was up cos I thought she was ok with it she was like "well I'm ok with it as long as you're doing your own thing but I don't get why you have to do pride and wave it in people's faces"

Straight Talk: I can accept you as you and will be fine with whatever you identify with, but, ya'know could you like not tell people or bring it up ever? Again I am super cool with you doing you, but don’t tell people okay? Because I’m not actually okay with it at all.